Tis Better to Be Intelligent Than Clever
Monday, February 18th, 2008I’ve never been a big fan of self-help books. They always strike me as preachy and self-indulgent. So I was decidedly skeptical when a good friend recommended Eckhart Tolle’s, “A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose.” Not only was it a spiritually oriented self-help book, it was — OMG — a selection of Oprah’s book club. It was two strikes and counting. But then I began reading, and a torrent of insights swept away my skepticism and captured my attention.
As a student of rainmaker marketing, I found much in Tolle’s book that related to creating and strengthening relationships with clients. In particular, I was struck by this passage:
“The ego may be clever, but it is not intelligent. Cleverness pursues its own little aims. Intelligence sees the larger whole in which all things are connected. Cleverness is motivated by self-interest, and it is extremely short-sighted. Most politicians and businesspeople are clever. Very few are intelligent. Whatever is attained through cleverness is short-lived and always turns out to be eventually self-defeating. Cleverness divides; intelligence includes.” (page 112)
Tolle’s words get to the key difference between traditional salespeople and true rainmakers. Salespeople use clever techniques — e.g., “smoke and mirrors” — to attract prospects and close sales. Rainmakers use their innate intelligence and market intelligence to create solutions that engage and benefit the audience.
Rainmaking is not about demonstrating how clever you are, but rather helping clients to live and work more intelligently. Cleverness is a shortcut and a monologue, while intelligence takes the higher road and nurtures a dialogue.
Clients may date cleverness, but they’ll marry intelligence.
Phil Fragasso — February 18, 2008